Archive for the ‘reciprocal affection’ Category

Taste


2012
01.11

Dillon: Mom, you are a really good cook.  (Nomming my homemade lasagna…)  And even when we go out to eat you have really good taste.  Like, you pick places that are really good.

Me: I try…

D:  You also have good taste in jokes and stuff.  I can understand why dad wanted to marry you.

Me: Yes but can you understand why I wanted to marry your dad?

D: He’s a computer nerd.

Me: You don’t understand a lot about girls yet, do you?

D: I also think it has something to do with you having good taste.  Like, he’s a pretty nice guy.  Except sometimes when he gets angry, and he’s kind of like the Hulk.  ‘About 2/3 of the time he knows who is on his side.’  That is a quote from the Marvel Superhero Squad that I checked out of the library yesterday.  (Goes into long plot exposition…)

Chess


2011
12.17

So, I knew that when Charles got home from work and walked in the door, this scene was going to make him exceedingly happy…

My parents were over for dinner (Charles wound up having to work very late) and afterwards D asked my dad to play a game with him.  They are playing on the chessboard Charles made with his Grandpa Joe back before D was born.

And sure enough, when Charles walked in the door he got the exact goofy grin on his face that I knew he was going to.  And Dillon and my Dad and Rose wound up playing three more games of chess, with Rose moving into the driver’s seat and getting coached by her Grandpa Tim about how all of the pieces go.

It was pretty awesome all around.

Cupcake Blanket


2011
12.16

So.  My three-year-old nephew, Oscar, is obsessed with cupcakes right now.  When I saw him in Florida in September for my cousin’s wedding, it was all about cupcakes.  He had stories about how his mommy was going to make him tiger cupcakes for his birthday (which Luke said was an entirely imagined plan), he watched Kate playing a terraforming videogame and it was all about making cupcake planets, and he said he dreamed about cupcakes and wanted to live in a cupcake world.

I thought this was adorable, and that I had picked up on the perfect birthday idea – making him a cupcake blanket.  But his birthday was only a little more than a week after the wedding, and I went to the fabric store directly upon my return from Florida, but all of the cupcake-printed fabrics were pink and excessively girly.  I called Luke to double-check, but he didn’t answer so I just used my better judgement and passed on the fabric.

But then we were discussing what to get Oscar for Christmas and  Kate said, “Everything I know about Oscar’s likes can be summed up by ‘the Car movie’ and I’ve exploited that as much as I can.  Unless I can find a good cupcake blanket…”

And I thought that she was messing with me.   But she came to that idea on her own.  So – Challenge Accepted.   In my quest to become remain Oscar’s favorite auntie, I decided to make a cupcake blanket that was reasonably gender-neutral for Oscar for Christmas.  But the fabrics didn’t magically change from shades of pink, so I decided to approach it a different way.  I bought two pieces of fleece, one brown with polka dots for the top, and another complimentary-colored one with basketballs for the bottom.  (Basketball with Grandpa may be the only thing in the world he likes better than cupcakes.)

So I appliqued cupcakes onto the top of the blanket.  First, I cut cartoony cupcakes out of paper grocery bags.  Charles thought they looked too much like muffins, so he lobbied for sprinkles.  I have never done this kind of thing before, but it seemed like it made the most sense to sew all the pieces together and then stitch to the blanket, so that is what I did.

But it seemed like it was going to be too flat, so I stuffed just the top of the cupcake with some cotton batting to make it a little puffier.

Then, because I was making a fleece tie blanket, I tied my two pieces of fleece together.  It is super-simple, I made one of these with my mother-in-law like eight years ago and basically faked it from memory.  I used my rotary wheel and cutting mat to make one inch strips, about five or six inches long, mostly eyeballing it on the length but using the grid on the mat to be fairly precise about the width.  Then you just tie square knots, making sure you are tying the pieces you cut together and not missing any.  It is a little tricky if you are working on a table shorter than the length of the blanket, because you really should cut a whole side before you start tying, and the place you might make a mistake is if things get all jumbled together from moving the blanket.

The whole project took the better part of a day, but it was really fun, and I think Oscar is going to like the result.  (I turned up the corner so you can see the basketballs underneath.)

Of course, after I finished this, I told my mom about it.  She had just returned from Louisiana, where she had hung out with Oscar while Jackie took her law school finals.  And my mom said, “That will be great, the other blanket you made him is his favorite but it is getting too small for him.”

And I said, “What blanket was that again?”

“The baby leopard blanket.”

Finally, the lightbulb went on and I remembered that I had made a baby blanket for this little guy already.  Out of a piece of fabric his dad had bought at the Ben Franklin dime store and then, because most eight-year-old boys don’t have much use for a piece of fabric (even if it has cute baby leopards on it), had just sat in my mom’s house for twenty years.  I had completely spaced that out.  So, we can start taking bets on what the next blanket I make for him might have on it, when he is too old for cupcakes and basketballs.

Party Favor Purses


2011
12.06

So, I was trying to think of something I could make as party favors for Rose’s birthday.  Money is tight (though it always seems to be at this time of the year) – so I was trying to do her birthday on the cheap.  And since her heart’s desire was to have a couple of girlfriends sleep over and watch Mary Poppins, the party wasn’t going to be spendy.

I looked at a great book, One Yard Wonders, for ideas, because I knew I wanted to make little purses for them.  And I have two bins of fabric remainders (even after donating five plastic grocery bags full of scraps to the kids’ school for art projects they were doing).  So I figured I could scrap some purses together for the six girls at the party.  I found the perfect thing in the book, and then just scaled it down a little to be more of a kids’ size.  I cut a pattern out of a paper grocery bag by drawing a circle that was an inch bigger than what I wanted for the purse, and then extending the line off the side and flattening the edges.  I got Charles to pull apart some links off a chain for the metal connector, then made the purse straps to fit through the chain link, which wound up being a little wider than one inch.

I picked out some fabrics for the outside of the purse, and a contrasting color for the lining.  (After doing tons of fancy gowns over the years I have so many satins to pick from, which make a lovely lining.)  If you want more detailed instructions, comment or message me, and I can break it down a bit further, but it wound up being really easy to put together, so you could probably just fake it.  I gathered the bottom of the purses a little to scrunch them up a bit more, and the tops don’t really close, they are just held sort of closed by elastic.  But I like the scrunchiness of the bags, and I think they turned out super-cute.

I also attached a little flowery flair to some of them (a la my crafty fundraiser post, just minus the hair elastics) to spice things up a bit, and they were pretty and simple to put together in a couple of evenings.

Best of all, I had a party favor that the girls loved, and I didn’t spend a dime on!  We threw in some Mardi Gras beads that Aunt Jackie sent Rose a huge box of, and a fruit roll up, and a couple of leftover hair gadgets from a prior project, and called it a day.  And Rose’s party was awesome.  The cake that her Nana Joyce made her was really amazing as well.  I can’t give you tips on how to do it, but there is a picture here.